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TO MY WIFE

Dearest Love , I won't ask you how you are doing because I know you are not well. The shouting match we had on the phone some days back is surely well engraved in your brain. You also know that I am a proud man and I'll not allow you to claim victory of that match. However I write this not to cop a plea (you know I won’t beg) but to tell you that such love-conflicts are a part of all relationships, and we need to look at the bright side of these conflicts. I believe that our quarrels and battles alert us to the fact that there are some weaknesses in the relationship that we need to sort. After all, if we didn't have the weaknesses we would not have quarreled or even had any kind of a Cold War. The most important thing is that we must, like you and I beautifully do, make sure that our conflict gain traction and a frank resolution. I know you feel the same joyful calm that engulfs me whenever we make up after battle, as though we have freshly met - the )d) fof